Based on 12+ years of coaching women and insights from attachment psychology, discover why men pull away when things feel serious – and how speaking to one hidden instinct may help him feel closer, more present, and more committed.

For decades, relationship psychology and attachment research from universities around the world have shown that unspoken emotional needs quietly shape how men love, commit, and stay present in a relationship. If you’ve ever felt confused by mixed signals, sudden distance, or a man who “just isn’t ready,” you’re not imagining it – there’s a real psychological pattern underneath that confusion.
In this free presentation, relationship coach James Bauer breaks down that pattern in simple, practical language and reveals how a man’s natural “hero instinct” can affect the way he shows up with effort, affection, and long-term intention. Many women find that once they understand this instinct, they finally feel calmer, more secure, and less stuck in painful guessing games.

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